Video Collection · For Supporters · 4 Videos
How to Keep Showing Up for Someone with a Chronic Illness
Short videos for showing up, week after week, after the casseroles stop coming.
How this collection works
- Who watches this
- You — the person showing up. These videos aren't for the recipient.
- When
- Before a conversation, when you're not sure what to say. Watch alone, take a beat.
- What each beat is for
- Caption orients you before watching. Takeaway is the line to hold onto. Reflection questions turn watching into a small decision.
The collection · 4 videos
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10 Ways to Support Someone With a Chronic Illness
DINET - Dysautonomia Information Network · 6 min
A patient-educator's ten concrete moves a supporter can make - the checklist to start from.
Takeaway
Don't say 'call me if you need anything.' Pick one thing - a ride, a meal, the dishes - and offer it specifically. Invite them even when they keep cancelling.
Reflection
01
Write the specific offer you'll text this week - name the exact thing (a ride Thursday, dinner Sunday, an hour of laundry) instead of 'let me know if you need anything.'
02
Put a recurring check-in on your calendar - a low-pressure 'how are you really?' message every two weeks, so showing up doesn't depend on you remembering.
03
Pick one small win of theirs to notice out loud this month (they made it to an appointment, they got outside) - text them that you saw it.
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