Video Collection · For Supporters · 4 Videos
How to Show Up for Someone After a Miscarriage
Short videos for the moment you don't know what to say.
How this collection works
- Who watches this
- You — the person showing up. These videos aren't for the recipient.
- When
- Before a conversation, when you're not sure what to say. Watch alone, take a beat.
- What each beat is for
- Caption orients you before watching. Takeaway is the line to hold onto. Reflection questions turn watching into a small decision.
The collection · 4 videos
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How to Support Someone Going Through Miscarriage | Misconceptions Ep. 9
NZ Herald (Misconceptions) · 7 min
A pregnancy-loss counselor on what helps, what to skip, and how to keep showing up after the news.
Takeaway
Don't try to fix the loss. Name it, sit with it, and offer one specific thing you'll do this week instead of "let me know if you need anything."
Reflection
01
Write the exact text you'll send today — what does it say, and what "helpful" line are you going to cut from it?
02
Pick one concrete thing you'll do for them this week without being asked (meal, errand, childcare). When will you do it?
03
Put a reminder in your calendar for 3 weeks from now to check in again — what will you say once everyone else has moved on?
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